October 3, 2008 - It is a kind of intelligence too to give up |
It is a kind of intelligence too to give up
A does things in the company that the friend took the post as the boss bigly, for the friend's trust and realization of one's own value, he is in a conscientious and down-to-earth manner, willing to bear the burden of work, do well in several great projects, it is the boss that appreciates. But company larger and larger later on, he, and boss the view differ in a lot of planning and treatment of problem of Company, even difference is very great. Big unwilling wounded friendship for many years because of mutual discord of A, unwilling to violate one's own will but to do things, A tells to his teacher of middle school bigly, he looked like and crept into a besieged city without door in that period of time, very puzzled, what shall do ask oneself ceaselessly.
The teacher has told the story of hand Tan Dun of musical instrument:
When Tan Dun reaches U.S.A. for the first time, can only survive by making a living as a performer in the street, there was a piece of domain that made money most at that time --The gate of a bank, what played the musical instrument included a black musical instrument hand with Tan Dun, they cooperate very well. Later on Tan Dun enters the university and receives a training with the money making a living as a performer, ten years later, Tan Dun is a famous musician in the world. Tan Dun finds that still plays the musical instrument in front of that bank with that black person's musical instrument hand in once, greeted in the past. Those black person musical instrument hand is opened one's mouth and said: " Hey! Partner! In where domain that make money of most you draw the musical instrument now? "
The teacher says finally: " Unless people, must know how in time it leave,it leave those seem to be make money most but can't progressive place; People must pluck up one's courage, are studying constantly, could mount another peak of the life. "
Having finished listening to the teacher's comfort, it seems a bit as if relieved of a heavy load that A is big. Later on A submitted the resignation bigly, opened one's own cause. A said bigly: " Life is really fair, I have one's own satisfactory work now, create the wealth with one's own intelligence, and my friend is with another road to succeed of his quick-witted trend. It not only make the friendship between us firmer to give up, has also accomplished our one's own undertakings. "
A lot of people are unwilling to give up the thing had by oneself, though these things bring to oneself too fast and happy, but it, just like the sand in the hand, you want to hold tight it, it slips away from pointing to sew. It is a kind of intelligence too to in fact give up in right time, it can let people show great foresight, opens the new cause, happiness, happiness of enabling people.
Lao Sun says: Mine " The beauty " Standard
In my friend encloses, does not lack the famous and generally acknowledged beauty, however, as once everybody let me discuss me " The beauty " In standard time, my answer is still the expectation exceeding them greatly. I say: With my standard, the beauty, those which I can get to know. Big super beauty, is my wife --Because it is in one's hands that I can chase. Other I have no chance, get to know, in my view, beauty all right away.
Hey, you are added and afraid of the wife by the sour grapes I suffer it much " Bombard " . Bombard, disdain, I really think in this way. The reason is very simple, and you do not matter or impossible woman who have something to do with you, more beautiful, have nothing to do with you too. You praise them for being beautiful, praise more lively, others can not hear, have heard that will not feel about you either. The strength of half a day of your fee is not very silly.
The reason in fact all over the world is treated; The expectation that can be realized is valuable.
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