multiple sex partners

Posted on October 11, 2008 at 3:17 PM - Post Comment

Earlier today I got to thinking about sex partners. How much experience is too much? Is that even possible? When do you reach a point where you're just doing people for the hell of it?

I went out with this guy who has over 20 sexual partners. I know in the broad scheme of things that may not be that many, but he's under 30. Where does someone get that much time? i understand that one night stands are a part of life... but how many one night stands does a person have before they feel trashy? Is it weird that this is a turn off for me? Im not a "typical girl"; I dont think that sex is super intimate thing that bonds people for life. Sometimes sex is just sex for the fun of it, but 20+ times? I dont know about that.

Sometimes people have it all wrong. Girls know its unrealistic to be every guys "first". Most of us dont even want that, every girl loves a guy with some experience in the bedroom. What we want out of someone we're dating is to feel somewhat "special". After 20+ sexual partners is any women sexually special? Thats my question. If I'm just sleeping with a guy for the hell of it, I dont care if he has 2 sexual partners or 200 as long as the job is getting done (safely of course).  But thats just my personal opinion.

Do you count sexual "numbness" by times or by partners? Is there even such a thing?